Processing the Past

“Let your past be used to refine you, never to define you."

Alism

To define means to “to determine the limits or nature of; describe exactly; or to state the meaning of”[i]  In life we have a tendency to allow our past history, actions, circumstances, relationships, mistakes, mishaps, decisions (must I go on) to describe us, determining our limits and/or nature.  This faulty belief system enables your past to stagnate your present and stifle the hope of a brighter future.

However, to refine means to “to free from impurities; to make more polished or elegant”.[ii]  That’s all we should allow our past to do…to make us better instead of bitter.  Our past can be seen as our refinery process...what we must go through to be what has been ordered, planned and predestined.

For instance, how would you like to go to a restaurant for breakfast, order scrambled eggs and receive an unbroken, white egg on your plate?  Of course you would not crack the egg open and begin to eat it raw because that is NOT what you ordered.  In order for you to enjoy scrambled eggs, the egg must be broken, beaten with a fork, mixed with some milk, salt, and pepper, and then placed in a hot pan to be cooked.  That’s a process the egg must endure to be in the condition you ordered. 

Your past condition and present circumstances are the prerequisites in your process of being what was divinely ordered.  Don’t deny yourself of the privilege of embracing the process.  The past is to refine you, not define you.  To make you better, not bitter.  Learn from the process and embrace the journey.  It is that refining process that gives your life credence and value.   

Aim High…

© 2012 Aldean Pearson

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Aldean “Al” Pearson is a Professional Speaker, Trainer, and Growth Coach.  He is the Co-Founder of the LĪVE! movement, a speaking, training and coaching organization committed to developing extraordinary people, families, and businesses. His “up-front and candid,” yet at times humorous approach empowers his clients and audiences to look past their limitations to find the hidden gems of capability within. He is married with twin boy and girl. 
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[i] Webster’s New World Dictionary, Fourth Edition;  Wiley Publishing, Inc.  2003.

[ii] Webster’s New World Dictionary, Fourth Edition;  Wiley Publishing, Inc.  2003.

The Beauty of Each Moment

“It may not be the place where you maximize;

but don’t let it be a place where you criticize.”

Alism

Often times we find ourselves in circumstances, situations and/or positions that are not rendering the maximum results we desire.  These times are perfect breeding grounds for criticism to grow.

In every situation and circumstance, there is something intrinsically valuable for us to learn.  Criticizing prohibits our ability to receive highly, beneficial knowledge. 

Each and every situation offers us something of value.  It’s up to us to assess our less than desirable surroundings and develop the wisdom to gain the knowledge that will serve us well in the future. Understanding the beauty of each moment and using each opportunity to evaluate, learn, and live the lesson(s) then moves our lives from a circle to an upward spiral.    

Aim High…

© 2012 Aldean Pearson

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Aldean “Al” Pearson is a Professional Speaker, Trainer, and Growth Coach.  He is the Co-Founder of the LĪVE! movement, a speaking, training and coaching organization committed to developing extraordinary people, families, and businesses. His “up-front and candid,” yet at times humorous approach empowers his clients and audiences to look past their limitations to find the hidden gems of capability within. He is married with twin boy and girl. 
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The Proving Ground

“Adversity is the proving ground for success.”

                                                                  Alism

One definition for prove is “to establish as true”[i].   It is true, good success only comes about through adversity.  Therefore, troubles, obstacles, and hindrances are all meant to give you an opportunity to see what you are made of.  Adversity defines the pretenders (people who act like they’re winning) from the contenders (people who believe they can win).

When we look at ships, they were never created to stay docked. How would we ever know it would and could float if it never left the dock to venture out into the sea?  How would we know it could withstand the storm if it never faced one?  Likewise, we will not have the privilege of knowing our potential or experience the pleasure of good success if we are never put in situations and circumstances that would not only test our mettle, but also prove the veracity of our existence.

It’s time for a paradigm shift.  The next time you experience an onslaught of adversity, consider it as your friend.  It tells you everything you want to hear…especially how great and authentic you really are!  It’s character building time…you must stand up strong and say, “I will have my success!”    

Aim High…

© 2012 Aldean Pearson

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Aldean “Al” Pearson is a Professional Speaker, Trainer, and Perspective Coach.  He is the Co-Founder of the LĪVE! movement, a speaking, training and coaching organization committed to developing extraordinary people, families, and businesses. His “up-front and candid,” yet at times humorous approach empowers his clients and audiences to look past their limitations to find the hidden gems of capability within. He is married with twin boy and girl. 
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[i] Webster’s New World Dictionary, Completely New Edition:  Wiley Publishing, Inc.  2003.